After Marsha’s husband passed away, her daughter Beverly started coming around more often and noticed that her mother was not able to keep up with the house & yard as she used to. Marsha also mentioned that she didn’t enjoy cooking for just herself, so would often eat snacks or frozen meals from the grocery store. Many of us are facing issues with aging parents who are unable to take care of their homes or themselves any longer. #1 Start the conversation with your concerns. It’s important to keep in mind that approaching your loved one with why you are concerned about them is better than telling them that they can no longer live in their home. #2 Compare the Costs & determine finances. Sit down and figure out your parents finances with them or schedule a meeting with a Financial Advisor. #3 Tour Senior Living Communities. Let your parent know that you want them to be in control of where they will move to. #4 Decide on a Community. If they are going to wait to move until something changes with their health or care needs, you should be touring Assisted Living Communities. #5 Tough Love. If your parent is resistant to moving from their home, realize that if they are still able to make their own decisions, sometimes you have to wait for a crisis to occur. #6 Making the Move. Once a move is scheduled, you may want to bring in an Estate Sale Planner. #7 Dealing with Guilt. While this transition may be tough emotionally on your parent and you, know that you are doing what is best for everyone in the long run. This article was written by Kelley Rogers. For more information visit www.SeniorOneSource.net
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